Now that Rod has been promoted to glory, this blog will be somewhat in limbo. Many of you have gained much from Rod’s blog and he hated to see it come to an end. Perhaps in the future there will be some additions but that is a work in progress and might be a few months before it comes to fruition. Rod’s desire would have been for his readers to continue stretching themselves in their studies and use God’s word to bring honor and glory to God rather than man. May each of you carry on Rod’s legacy by being faithful to our great God who led Rod each day and each step. Nothing would please him more (both God and Rod!).
Many have asked what the arrangements are for Rod’s funeral. As many of you know, Rod had unique ideas regarding death and burials. His desire was to have a direct burial–not because we couldn’t afford otherwise, but because so much to do is made about the person and he didn’t want the focus to be on him.There will be a grave side service for family and a few close friends on Thursday (no that’s not two days but there were some schedule conflicts so that had to be altered but we are honoring the rest of his wishes). There will be a memorial service at the Northmoreland Baptist Church on June 7 at 2:00 that any who can attend may do so.
Rod’s desire in both services is that God be the focus and that he would be the one honored–not Rod Decker. I guess that should not be a surprise since that was the way he lived. God alone is the one to whom glory and honor should be given. Rod was just an instrument used by God and the kids and I count it a privilege that we reaped even more than most of you.
On another note, the family thanks each of you for your prayers and notes of encouragement. We are coping well most of the time and it’s easier than I expected it would be to deal with the loss. Knowing he is pain free and with the Savior allows us to rest and know that God will care for us and fill that void. Personally, I’m looking forward to getting involved in our church once again after a few months away as I cared for Rod. One doesn’t realize how much the body of Christ/local church means until you can’t be a part of it. I’m thankful I was able to care for Rod to the end and don’t regret a minute of it or that I “had” to miss church, but I am now ready to return and pick up my responsibilities and add new ones from what I’ve learned through this journey.
Oh death, where is your sting? Death is swallowed up in victory.
It is through hurting hearts (the frail, selfish side of us) that I write this post to inform our dear friends that Rod has been promoted to glory. He is now absent from a body consumed by cancer and is at rest and present with the Lord. We hurt for our loss but are rejoicing that the battle is over and the victory won. God granted Rod the desires of his heart and he died as he lived. He was fearful of dishonoring God in the last days and I can praise God that he remained faithful to the one he loved and served to the end. He went peacefully in his sleep on May 25, 2014.
The children and I are doing as well as can be expected at this point. Even though we knew death was coming and inevitable for us all I don’t think we can ever be fully prepared when it actually happens. We feel God’s strength even in our tears as we cling to each other and talk through the “need to’s”, the plans, and laugh as we realize that it doesn’t matter that he doesn’t fit in his best suit to be buried. Rod was never a person who did things for show and we will honor that in his death. We talked much over the past couple years and the past few months especially and his (& our) desire is that all the focus will be put on God and Christ for his memorial service. Rod did not want any attention drawn to himself as a man or to anything he might have accomplished on earth. It was all done for God and to God goes the glory.
We all have lost a man of integrity, a man of humility, a man much wiser than even he knew but we’ve gained so much more in his death. Heaven is more real and our perspective of losing his earthly body is much different from what we thought. He has just begun life while we remain on earth to experience more suffering, death, and human perspectives. His goal in life was to lead people to the Word and understand that it makes a difference in how we live. If he has accomplished that in lives other than his own family then the honor goes to God for using a humble man as an instrument to carry that message. Rod would say, “Go deeper, don’t grieve for me but take what I’ve taught and grow more in tune with God.”
We as a family thank you for your prayers over the past months. God has answered even if we don’t know who you are. He continues to strengthen us and we plan to continue the legacy Rod left behind and serve to the end.
According to the dictionary trust is a firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something. As believers, our first attempt of trust is when we accept Christ as our personal Savior. However, over the past couple years and even more so in the past couple weeks, Rod and I have experienced a totally different level of trust.
More than 50 years ago, we put our faith in Christ and “trusted” him as our Savior. Looking back at that trust now, it seems like it was so simplistic. Sincere as it was, it is far different from the trust we are experiencing daily. As we face the few remaining weeks (2-3 from a medical perspective) of Rod’s life on earth, that child like trust becomes much deeper. As children, I doubt we knew all the ramifications of trusting, but were more concerned with making sure we were safe from an eternity in hell after some teacher let us know how horrible it would be. These days as cancer, pain, and drugs tend to take over the body and mind, we are now faced with a different level of trust.
During the night when the effects of the cancer and drugs seem more complex and difficult to deal with, and are inclined to throw us off course, we are reminded anew that trust is more than an escape from the fear of eternity in hell that scared us into trusting God’s plan of salvation. God is God and his attributes do not change when our emotions do. He is truth, a refuge and our strength (to name a few) when events in the course of the day/night seem to overwhelm us and we search for understanding. In our desire to finish our course on earth by remaining faithful to the end, trust has become a more complex idea. The God we have taught about, served and love, now asks us to trust him when death is knocking at the door; when cancer and medications are causing the body and mind to focus on things other than reality and truth. During the night when sleep evades us, we spend hours focusing on the God who is truth and realize afresh our trust is more of a conscious effort to acknowledge God and rest in the fact that he alone is our refuge and strength. When the mind plays games to undermine us so we lean toward fear, we find we need to trust that our God is worthy of praise and worth resting/trusting in him because of who he is.
Rod’s health continues to decline each day. He says he isn’t in much pain and for that we continue to praise God. We are drawing near the end and we are preparing for that. For Rod it will be a glorious release from the body and he will be present with his Lord. For me it will be a release from watching my dear husband lose ground daily. Life for both of us will go on. For though we walk through the valley of the shadow of death, we can do so without fear for God’s rod and staff comforts us. We will trust in the one who is ever present, ever knowing, and ever powerful.
Praying for those with terminal disease. you must hold two things in tension: God can (and often does) choose to heal through medical means. This appears to be his normal method of bringing healing. But it is also true that God can heal supernaturally apart from such human means. When he works in this way, we call it a miracle. Just because God can heal in either of these two ways, does not mean that he is obligated to do either. He may choose either means of healing or he may not choose to heal at all—even if many Christians pray asking him to do so. God is not a cosmic vending machine waiting for us to put in the right change. Instead we trust the Good, Sovereign Creator of the Universe to do what he knows best.
So how does one pray for someone who appears to be securely in the incurable column, someone whom it does not appear that God is going to heal? We can’t know that for sure, of course, but when the terminal condition persists, the doctors appear to be unable to anything more, and God does not show any indication of intervening, then what? You may continue to pray, hoping that God will heal “at the last minute,” or you might consider praying for that person’s physical and spiritual needs as they face death. Or both.
A few suggestions (for prayer and otherwise), not in any particular order… (See the pdf for suggestions.)
After several weeks of being largely confined to bed, I’m finally beginning to function a *bit* more normally. I’m still very weak, but can at least begin to process some content-heavier material. (For those aware of my oncologist’s request for a one-page “testimony” as to what is helping me cope, I actually finished it yesterday —though @ 4 pgs, not 1! (See below for link.) Pray that God will use it in his life.) I’m also regaining some appetite. Limited visitors from the area are fine, but contact my wife first to make sure that I’m awake and can handle them (833-7017). Emails are fine; please use rod period decker at g mail com.
If you’d like my wife’s perspective (she has been an invaluable help to me this past year and especially March-April 2014), see the following 1=page essay:
Rydbeck, Lars. “On the Question of Linguistic Levels and the Place of the New Testament in the Contemporary Language Milieu.” In The Language of the New Testament: Classic Essays. JSNT supp. series #60. Edited by Stanley E. Porter, 191-204. Sheffield: JSOT Press, 1991.<1> [My comments are included in the
As I have the time (and energy) over the next few days or maybe weeks, I’ll be posting some Greek grammar materials that I don’t think I’ve posted before.
I’ll begin with a summary of Buist Fanning’s chs. 1-2. Buist was the external examiner for my dissertation, now quite a few years ago. I’ve always appreciated his gentle spirit and detailed work.
Dated 2013, but presented in chapel by a surrogate reader April 2014
This is a controversial topic even among non-pacifistic Christians.
Due to the controversy and my failing health that prohibit moderating any comments, I have closed comments for this post.
The following is a draft that represents a sketch of what might have one day turned into a full fledged grammar—and perhaps would have been sufficiently substantive to have been designated as a “book”— so, though it is not large, perhaps you will find it useful in the range of an intermediate (2nd year) grammar. Much of this represents material written and/or rewritten over the course of 25 years and then rewritten together into one unified file this past winter.
Praise the LORD, all you nations, extol him, all you peoples. For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the LORD endures forever. (Ps.117:1,2)
Our hearts are filled with praise to our God who continually remains faithful to us. We know many people are praying around the world for Rod (& the family) at this time when life is so uncertain–but then isn’t that the case for all, not just us dealing with cancer? Rod’s first week on hospice care was not a good one, but since then he’s rallied some and tends to spend a portion of each day out with the family either at the table for a meal or in his recliner. He tires easily, but his smile and dry humor gives us much encouragement that he’s functioning so much better.
His oncologist continues to follow up with house calls–yes, you read that right. He comes at least 2-3 times a week. He has become a friend in this process over the past year and Rod has shared much about Scripture with him. Its a new field to him so he’s curious but also interested on an intellectual basis. He is the head oncologist for the area and is a busy man so it means much to us that he takes time out of his busy schedule to check on us (it’s a 45 minute drive one way for him to come). We can honestly say he’s not doing it for the money but out of compassion. God knew what he was doing when Rod got transferred from his other oncologist to this man. After his visit this evening, he commented that he was surprised and pleased to see that Rod is doing so well. He really expected by this time Rod would be going downhill and that isn’t the case at this point. We know that this could still end in Rod’s Homegoing unless God intervenes in a miraculous way but we are still thanking God for this extra time when we as a family can enjoy our times with him.
Rod is ready to go if that is God’s plan and to that end we are preparing. Some things are hard to work through, but glad he can think clearly enough most of the time to be able to help with decisions. Sunday found him out on the porch with the family talking about what needs to be done to finish the inside of the porch. I found the three of them later locked in the bedroom with Rod’s coffin (which Rob, our oldest son, built).* Rod wanted to see it, so the boys brought it up to show him.
Our oncologist has asked us to write a one page paper (imagine the challenge that will be for Rod!) on how cancer has impacted us, how we deal with it, and how we’ve reconciled ourselves to it (with Scripture to back it up). Please pray that Rod would have some time to finish this for the doctor. He needs a couple clear days to get it down on paper so we covet your prayers regarding this one thing. It would mean so much to both Rod and the doctor to have this paper.
Thank you all for your prayers and encouraging words. It is overwhelming and humbling to both of us to know how many lives have been impacted by this quiet scholar.
*Cost: $-0-; built from Hemlock cut and milled on the farm.
As of Wed., April 3, both radiation and chemo treatments have been stopped as part of the treatment plan for Rod’s cancer. Over a year ago, we were told it was treatable but not curable. God in his infinite wisdom and grace has given us many blessings through that year but the cancer has continued to grow and spread due to its aggressive nature.
Rod is now on hospice and from a medical perspective looks like the cancer will take him home before long. Could God perform a miracle? Absolutely! Will he? Only he knows that. We continue to press on to serve him for any remaining time and strength he gives.
We covet and appreciate your prayers. The past few days have been stronger ones for Rod but his body is still showing signs of the cancer’s progress. He is not in pain for which we are praising God.
Our family is enjoying this time with Rod. We cry together, laugh together, and just cherish this time that God is giving us with a man who has led us, loved us, and encouraged us for many years. He exemplifies the one he’s served even through this time when life is drawing to a close.
God continues to be faithful and good even in times like these. Great is our God!
I was very surprised and greatly honored to be asked to preach Dick’s funeral message. There are far more capable preachers than me. But to open the Word of God at the memorial service for one of my long time mentors and friends was a special privilege. I prayed, and my church family at Northmoreland prayed with me, that God would give me both the physical strength to stand to preach and also the emotional strength to do so in an honorable way. My oncologist also worked with me in advance to prepare my weakened body for the physical challenge; his help is appreciated.
Dick had given specific written instructions as to what the preacher was to do. (I explain them in the message). In one of his last lucid moments 2 weeks ago he asked his wife to contact me to be that preacher. So, for what it is worth, here is a pdf manuscript of the message. It comprised about the last half hour of a two-hour memorial service.
(If you have no idea who “Dick” is, see the previous post on this blog.)
Richard W. Engle
1933 — 2014
Christian, OT scholar, pastor, mentor, friend, colleague
“Life is tough, but God is good—all the time.”
ThB, Baptist Bible Seminary; ThM, Dallas Theological Seminary;
ThD, Grace Theological Seminary
L-to-R: Richard Engle, Rod Decker, Bill Arp
Dick and Bill joined the faculty at the same time and taught together at BBC and later at BBS (Dick in OT, Bill in NT) for 35 years until Dick retired in 2006. I was one of their (undergrad) students when they arrived on faculty, later worked as Dick’s student assistant/grader, and many years later I was privileged to become their colleague on the Seminary faculty.
At Dick’s retirement service in 2006 (as are the other pictures above) with his wife Barb
In the Preface to my forthcoming grammar (Reading Koine Greek: An Introduction) I wrote this:
One other prof deserves mention. Though he was not one of my language teachers, Dr. Richard Engle is one of the chief reasons why I persevered in Greek. He came to the classroom after ten years of pastoral ministry. In his theology and Bible classes I saw a blend of the biblical languages, theology, and ministry. He later became a Hebrew professor in seminary, but in his undergrad classes he convinced me that if I was serious about Scripture, I had to be serious about the biblical languages; I could not get by with lip service to the original text. He not only taught it, he modeled it. Dick’s example guided my attempt at a similar integration for the dozen years I spent in the pastorate and is the vision that I now try to communicate to my students who aspire to pastoral ministry.
A memorial service will be held at Heritage Baptist Church in Clarks Summit, Pa. on Tue., Mar 18 at 4 pm; visitation 2–4 pm.
Posted below is a 2-page pdf file with a list of 48 verbs in the NT that take a dative direct object. This is not complete, though it is more complete than other lists I’ve seen thus far. It is based on the list of 20 verbs in Robertson’s Grammar and then supplemented with a search of the entries in BDAG using Accordance to find verbs that have notes regarding the use of the dative. I’m happy to have feedback on this list, either suggestions for omission (if you think I’ve included inappropriate verbs) or for addition for those that I’ve surely missed. I am distinguishing between verbs which take a direct object and others that have a dative complement. I realize that some prefer just to list them all as complements, but I think there is a legitimate distinction in some instances.